so thats our issue.
An issue that was never resolved, and in my opinion, will never be resolved.
i wanted to just charge at him,
tell him that by simply dismissing my temperament is nv going to work.
But i know its pointless.

Oh yeh. i have learnt (at least abit) to tell him why i am upset or angry over certain stuffs. I have opened up alot but i guess this doesnt work for us as well.

I dont see why he needs to categorize things under the narrow definition of right and wrong.
That is, if you are wrong, you should apologise, and if you think you are right, then wait for an apology. Sometimes, or rather most of the time, things are not about who are at fault, but about how feelings are conveyed.

An innocent conversation can escalate into an an argument and into a full blown fight?
Really? We have never fought.
And thats the thing that is killing me.
And he will nv understand what i meant by this.